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Wednesday, May 05, 2004 it's not helping if you don't define the question
my friend ask me, "what is a cat?" I replied, "it's not a dog." He told me, "you are not asnwering to the question." I said, "It's not helping if you are not defining the question for me to answer." Many a times, we want an answer from someone, but we do not really define the question for them to answer to the question. And you balme them for not being able to answer your question. It's kinda fustrating to hear from a person who ask you a question and tell you that you are not answering to the question. For myself, I would kept asking the person what's the answer that you wish to hear and I can tell you if the answer that you want to hear and my answer is the same. I prefer to ask the person the answer of what I want to hear... E.g. 1) Are you attached to so and so? INSTEAD OF are you attached? OR what do you think of relationship? 2) Did you get A for X subject? INSTEAD OF what did you get for A subject? I think it's always faster and less misunderstanding to ask the question this way. |
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